This is me in the gender...

You take a dim view of aggression and see it as a last resort. But when you reach the end of your rag, you can even frighten yourself!

There are some qualities where average is best and this is you. You are usually sensitive to others but you know how to throw caution to the wind and please yourself from time to time.

Brilliant control! You are either an established PlayStation addict or you should take up a fast reflex activity like table tennis or the piano!